I discovered this youtube clip from Andrea. If you have 19 minutes, please sit down and watch this. It is on a motivational speaker who grew up with one brother who had severe autism and another brother who died at the age of 4. She speaks about "Glass Children"- this is the term used for siblings who grow up with a disabled sibling. She is a very good speaker. It makes shiver to think about Andrew's trials that he will endure due to Trenton's autism.